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Our future self - what would they say?

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We all have a future-self ahead of us.  What would they say to you, today? What advice? By observing different life stages in play, I imagine what my future self would say to me. ... Yesterday, my Father told me he had got a black spot on his eye from a burst blood vessel. The black spot followed him around everywhere he looked. 'That's how Grandad lost his sight,' he said.  An hour later and we got a call from my partners family. His Grandad had gone to hospital after fainting and vomiting. He was now stable but shaken up. The aging of the body. A stage in the life cycle.  ... As I sit on my balcony overlooking a shared garden, I reflect, observe and write. A curly-haired girl plays quietly with a toy on the balcony opposite and a baby cries in the background. The start of the life cycle.  The girl ferries the plant pots around the balcony, rearranging them for the umpteenth time. Such purpose to every action she makes and each decision she takes! She squeals w...

Tool: The Carousel, a tool for those with lots of projects

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"What do you do? I hate that question! "  I was intrigued. During an online Creators Club meeting, the lovely Sarah Weiler gave us an insight into her inspiring ideas and theories, including her ‘ Carousel check-in tool ’; a helpful tool for anyone with multiple interests and projects! But why does she dislike this question? "Explaining who I was, was hard because I was doing so many things…", Sarah tell us. She goes on to exemplify this with a display of an impressive variety of paid and voluntary projects that she is involved with. She is creator and presenter of the ‘Quitting Quadrant’ - about knowing when to quit, a stand up comedian, TEDx speaker and founder of Power of Uke, where the ukulele is used as a team building tool in corporations like Google. Immediately, we got a much better picture of who Sarah was. I, like Sarah, have many interests, projects and ideas on the go or in my mind. At times, these ideas all surface at once and I dump ...

An Experience: Trekking Around Annapurna, Nepal

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In late February 2020 I did a great six day trek up Mardi Himal, a mountain in the Annapurna Range of Nepal.  Three days in to our trek and we are five trekkers, our Nepali guide and four other Nepalis sat huddled round a metal stove with a fire burning inside. Two large metal kettles sit on top & boots are scattered around, drying off. This fire, these four plaster board walls and corrugated iron roof is a wonderful shelter from the cold and snow which falls constantly outside. It's been almost 4 hours now - we arrived at 9:30am. For the past 3 days we've been climbing up and up through varying forests in the Annapurna Conservation Area (& doing some litter-picking as we go too!) and have now reached 3300 metres. We left villages behind on day one, passing them as they tended to their crops and ploughed the fields using cows or the old British tractors. A few minutes ago there was a huge rumbling sound like thunder...that was an avalanche, ou...

Ways Of Thinking: To What Extent Can We Change Who We Are? - Buddhist Insight

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In early February 2020, I joined 80 people from all corners of the world at Kopan Buddhist Monastery, Kathmandu, for a 10 day 'Introduction to Buddhism' course.  My previous blog gives an overview of the course whilst this one delves into what we learnt and what I took away from it. There are many different types of Buddhism. My course, and hence this post, refers to Tibetan Buddhism also known as Mahayana.  Also, this is based on only 10 days of learning so for clearer and deeper understanding, I refer you to any books by His Holiness the Dalai Lama! During the course I did a painting based on my key learnings. I will use the painting as a way to explain some elements of what we learnt.  It's called...  " Who am 'I'? "  Buddhists believe in reincarnation whereby we have already had many previous lives to this current one and will have many future lives. We may have been a soldier, a dancer, a dog or a fish in our previous lives bu...

An Experience: An Introductory Course to Buddhism...& Our Minds

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In early February, I joined 80 people from all corners of the world at Kopan Buddhist Monastery for a 10 day 'Introduction to Buddhism' course. What an experience! Kopan Buddhist Monastery which overlooks Kathmandu's hazy city sprawl from a high green hill. The monastery is home to a few hundred monks from 11 years to adulthood. The young ones go to school and receive a 'normal', secular education alongside their studies of Buddhism. It is quite unusual in that it invites non-Buddhist people (Lay people) to stay for residential courses lasting from a few days to 3 months. The particular one I attended has been running for 50 years! We were 80 wonderful people of all ages and all corners of the world: there was the Chilean mother and daughter doing this together; the British husband, father and Manager in an IT firm who'd got the time off just for this; the 36-year old American who had quit her 'good' but unfulfilling job in advertis...

Creative Writing: 'In This Moment' On Dry Rice Fields, Nepal

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In this moment on the dry rice fields , a space I share with some cows, I look out at the lake, a warm wind on my face. A young boy with a dog on a string runs around and along the bank of the stream.  With his friend, this is his playground. Several birds of pray fly over the water. One dives, picks up a fish and it glistens silver in the sunlight. The bird drops it, back to its freedom.  The water trickles on its way. I'm taken back to walking next to the streams in Cornwall, seeing the water in its final moments before it ends its journey in the sea. This water here is the same but it's so early on in its journey. It's barely began and has yet to pass by many villages and terrains. An unknown lies ahead. In this moment I feel 'in the moment'; like I haven't for quite a few days. In this moment, my hours of planning and research attached to my phone seem insignificant, unimportant. The importance I attached, gone on the wind.  In this moment, nature brought...

An Experience: A Week in Kathmandu, Nepal

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I left the UK on January 28th, just 7 days ago now. I flew into Kathmandu and spent 4 nights there before moving to Kopan Buddhist Monastery which is suspended above the dusty chaotic city on a peaceful green hill top. Kathmandu Kathmandu is a city of abundant noise, chaos and dust! Walking down the dusty roads motorbikes, cars and minibuses beep and weave their way past pedestrians, often passing you by what feels like inches. But for all this chaos and noise, the people move about calmly and without rushing. Mothers sit outside small kiosk-like shops with babies in their arms.  Bicycles parked by the road side are laden with fruit to sell, the owners waiting patiently for business. Central heating doesn't appear to exist and so, in the evenings, when the temperatures drop drastically, little fires pop up with Nepali's standing around chatting. I visited Durbar Square (square of temples), the old Royal Palace (though the monarchy ended around 2008 ...